You and I are in a relationship which I value and want to keep. Yet each of us are a separate person with unique needs and the right to meet those needs.

When you are having problems meeting your needs I will try to listen with genuine acceptance in order to help finding your own solutions instead of depending on mine. I also will respect your right to choose your own beliefs and develop your own values, different even they may be from mine as well.

However, when your behavior interferes with what I must get to get my own needs, I will tell you openly and honestly how your behavior affects me, trusting what u respect my needs and feelings enough to try to change the behavior that is unacceptable to me. Also whenever some behavior of mine is unacceptable to you, I hope you will tell me openly and honestly so I can change as well :)

So let us always strive to search for a solution that will be acceptable to both of us. Your needs will be met and so wil mine - neither both of us will win or lose.

Thus, ours can be a healthy relationship in which both of us can strive to become what we are capable of being. And we can continue to relate to each other with mutual respect, LOVE and PEACE